by Lordom Grecia (Class 2021)
Forgive yourself,
they said,
because that was
the only way
to start over again,
to be whole again,
to live again.
I want to,
oh trust me
I do,
but if only
it were that simple.
If only
I could forgive myself,
after everything.
But how can I forgive myself
after I let my walls down
again
despite swearing
never to do it?
How can I forgive myself
when I let people in
to my fragile sacred spaces
again
only to let them leave
after they break what they touch
and leave me
in pieces
too many to count
and too difficult to put back together?
How can I forgive myself
when I never seem
to learn my lesson?
I knew
I couldn’t trust anyone,
and I had to rely on myself.
And yet
I broke my promise
to myself.
Tell me how
I can forgive myself,
when
instead of putting everything back together
I threw the pieces
against the wall
and shattered them
into tinier fragments.
Tell me how
I can forgive myself
when
instead of stopping my wounds from bleeding
I made
more shards
with which I can be cut.
Tell me how
I can forgive myself
because
I want to know.
Tell me how
I can forgive myself
because
I need to know.
I need to know
because
I am tired
of the endless cycle
that I subject myself to.
I want
to forgive myself
but
I can never seem
to find it in me.
I want to
but
I don’t,
and it never ends.
Author’s Sidenote: This was originally written ca. 2015 (so pardon the weird font, I had a phase. I’m too lazy to edit it now), but has since been performed twice as a spoken word piece, both during OTN’s Open Mic Night (2017 & 2018)